Beckett is really developing quite the vocabulary and fills our home with non stop chatter these days.
When anyone is talking or asking a question, Beckett is more than happy to respond - even if the question wasn't directed to him.
I have a habit of having full out conversations with Declan - you know what I mean, "Are you having a hard day Declan? Is your belly hurting you? Are you tired?" etc etc etc. I mindlessly talk to him all day long. Beckett, assuming all conversation must include him, generally will respond.
And I playfully say "Not you, Beckett!"
It goes a little something like this.
Me: Poor Declan, is your belly hurting you today?
Beckett: Yeah. It IS Mommy, it IS hurting.
Me: Not you, Beckett!
Lest you think I'm the world's worst mother, I assure you I respond with a playful tone. In fact, I never thought much of it until one day I addressed Declan, Beckett responded and then quickly chimed in to address himself with, "Not you, Beckett!"
I don't know why but this little interaction stabbed me in my mama heart. I felt AWFUL about him repeating that phrase. It made me realize just how much those little ears hear and what they take in. What Beckett had been hearing was, "Not you, Beckett!"
Even though these past interactions had been playful and silly, and with absolutely zero ill intent, anger or frustration on my part - the last message in the world I wanted Beckett to internalize was, "Not you, Beckett!" - especially in the wake of a new baby brother.
This Christmas season, I've been particularly grateful for the message of the gospel.
Tim Keller says: “The universal religion of humankind is: We develop a good record and give it to God, and then he owes us. The gospel is: God develops a good record and gives it to us, then we owe him. In short, to say a good person, not just Christians, can find God is to say good works are enough. . . . But this apparently inclusive approach is really quite exclusive. It says, ‘The good people are in, and the bad people are out.’ What does this mean for those of us with moral failures? We are excluded. So both approaches are exclusive, but the gospel is the more inclusive exclusivity. It says joyfully, ‘It doesn’t matter who you are or what you’ve done. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been at the gates of hell. You can be welcomed and embraced fully and instantly through Christ.’"
Encouraged and hopeful that I am loved by a Heavenly Father who doesn't say, "Not you"
Merry Christmas, friends.
May you find joy and peace in Christ this holiday season. May you rest in the freedom of a Savior who offers you relief from the bondage of sin.